Business Lawyer- Leading with Authenticity

Is being "liked" part of a career objective? Or is the goal to be respected and trusted for your leadership? Should you aim to be liked, respected and trusted? Do men and women aim for the same objectives when they lead? Usually being liked does not rank very high on the list of objectives for men. But it is almost always expected of women. Women who are strong, independent and articulate and focus on the mandate of their position are often labeled as overconfident or bitchy. Men on the other hand are celebrated for their strong and assertive leadership. This is only one manifestation of gender inequality in the workplace. However, not all women face workplace gender inequality in the same way. As a young brown woman, I have found my leadership questioned in the workplace and in the courtroom-often initially resisted as a token that did not know her place. To combat this I have had to work harder and be over prepared and anticipate every possible ob...